This exciting post introduces a new feature here at sparksofattraction, the Alumni Mailbag. For those who are unaware, each week I run a conference call for all of my alumni (and for a monthly charge to a few subscribers) in which I answer any and all of their questions.
As long as people seem to enjoy this though, I will be selection one question each week to answer via video. Please let me know what you think, and I hope you enjoy. (I’ll add the text of the question below the video.)
This week’s question:
Question for the call. So: my personality is naturally more talkative and high-energy, and one of the things you say about conversation is to react with strong emotion, even exaggerated or child-like emotion, to the feelings of what a girl is talking about. **But on the other hand** a key feature of your conversation training is to leave the ‘pregnant pause’, and that it feels sexier to a girl when guys seem not to try hard.
So dude, given my natural personality (which you know) how do I split the difference here? Can you give me a better sense of when to turn on strong emotion, and when to just hang back and leave space?