Video Interview on Mastering Your Dating Life

Not too long ago I did a video interview with Jack Peterson of findyourgreatnessdaily.com

In the interview we covered:

– Reasons why many men and women struggle in their dating lives

– The main things that women find attractive about men

– Why physical attractiveness isn’t the most important factor in determining your dating life

– What to do on first dates

– Why guys get trapped in the “friendzone”

…and much more.

 

I hope you enjoy!

6 thoughts on “Video Interview on Mastering Your Dating Life

  1. I may be weird for noticing this, but were you guys (or at least just you, Nick) standing up during the interview?

    There was lots of absolute great stuff, but my biggest takeaway actually didn’t have much to do with the stuff you said, but how frigging much you were emoting and shifting you body around the entire interview.

    I watched the entire interview thinking that if you were talking to a woman, it would be “on” (which felt weird since you were in fact talking with a guy : P ). I may be way off, but in a bar setting I imagine you would be applying approximately the same mix of conflict and comfort.
    If you hadn’t applied all the comfort stuff (smiling, shifting around), this interview could have felt intimidating and overly serious.
    It was easier to imagine a woman being more on guard if talking with Jack in the interview, simply because he wasn’t really doing any of the comfort building stuff (he was of course more focused on the interview, so no offense).

    • Great pickup! I actually was standing during the interview. In fact, one of the things I always have to work on in so being too animated – one of the drawbacks of constantly teaching guys to be more animated. Glad I didn’t cross that line too much in this interview.

  2. okay, so I know this comment is two years late, but I wanted to ask you more about the friend zone. The way you answered it was “make a move”. I don’t know if that’s the correct way to answer it, because it’s seems to me to be a more complicated topic then just, ‘make a move’. So if you could elaborate on how to get out of the friend zone, it would be a big help and extremely interesting.

    • Thanks for the comment EG, and sure, I’ll give you the secret missing step that I left out 2 years ago:

      Step 2: Stop overthinking it. Thinking too much got you into this mess in the first place, it’s sure as hell not going to get you out of it. “Make a move” and be a man in communicating your feelings honestly and courageously, and stop pretending to only be her friend when your feelings are romantic. That kind of creepy, deceptive shit is why she’d never see you as a sexual partner — because you’ve obviously got some insecurities/hangups when it comes to expressing your sexual feelings.

      Friends hook up all the time, but never is one of them is hiding romantic intentions while acting totally platonic.

      • Thank s for the reply, I was wondering another question. It’s about the moment of truth. How do you utilize the moment of truth in a group of people? You leave that pause, but your friend keeps feeling that gap. What do you do?

      • Thanks for the reply, I was wondering another question. It’s about the moment of truth. How do you utilize the moment of truth in a group of people? You leave that pause, but your friend keeps feeling that gap. What do you do?

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